Diesel Performance Products were very quick getting back to me and very helpful. It seems the kit I bought from a distributor is an older one and while basic components are the same, instructions & recommendations have been updated. The directions, which they sent in PDF format, are still somewhat vague (mostly due to really lousy grammar and the assumption that the reader already knows what the writer is on about) and although I do now have a written parts list, it doesn't show which thing is what... so I'm guessing -
SYSTEM CONTENTS
-DIESEL FUEL SAVER AND TANK PRESSURE-REGULATOR ASSEMBLY WITH BRACKET
(YES) The main unit.
-LOCKOFF SOLENOID
(YES) Um, the gizmo that connects the unit to tank?
-5 FEET HIGH PRESSURE HOSE WITH ENDS
(NO - 2 feet only)
-25 FEET OF HIGH PRESSURE HOSE
(NO)
-25 FEET OF BOOST LINE HOSE
(YES) Easy to spot.
-CUSTOM SWITCH ASSEMBLY WITH MOUNTING BEZEL
(YES) Bezel?? OK, the bracket.
-HARNESS ASSEMBLY
(YES)) Easy.
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OIL PRESSURE SENDING UNIT/HARNESS (DFSI SYSTEMS ONLY_) (NO)
MISC BAGGED PARTS CONTAINING:
-ELECTRICAL CONNECTORS
( ASSORTED FUSE TAPS, ETC)
(YES) OK.
-ASSORTED BRASS FITTINGS
(YES - one "T" fitting) Obvious.
-HOSE CLAMPS (2)
(YES)
-SCREWS (2)
(YES)
-ZIP TIES (25)
(YES)
-PROPANE PLACARD
(NO)
It looks to me as though the retailer I bought from had this on display in his show room, fact he said so. Perhaps had pre-assembled some of the parts. For that reason it's hard to tell if some things from the list are missing or if they're just attached to other things. The only obvious missing parts are the two rolls of hose; which I don't think I'll need for my DL400.
Basically, it looks like I have everything needed.
Fortunately, after going over all the pics and piecing stuff together on the floor, I've been able to figure out most of the puzzle. From what I can tell, the Co. no longer recommends mounting the unit in engine compartment but close to tank instead. Prob'ly just as well cuz I don't know how much more stuff I can fit under the hood anyway!
This project is looking less & less daunting as I move along. Instead of having a shop do all the work I may actually end up installing most of it myself... as much as possible in a condo parkade anyway!
Am planning to place the tank where the spare tire lives and next year getting a bumper tire mount like Profister had done for his spare; that thing is awesome.
Until then, maybe a tire plug kit and portable compressor will keep me rolling.

I'm here to learn.