okay, just did the filter last weekend and took some pics. this is for the first timers or any newbs feeling a little leary about tryin to change their own fuel filter. all you need is a basic socket/wrench set, pliers, vise, and filter wrench. i'm a visual learner so here it goes...
remove 4 bolts around the intercooler, then i just propped it up with a piece of wood just enough to give room to remove batteries...(same process as getting at the oil sensor to change sensor or to T off with a bypass filter..)
remove dual battery terminals, whichever way looks easiest (negative off first, then move cable out off the way over the headlights). remove bracket that holds batteries down (NOTE: when reinstalling, do not overtighten the nut for the long piece of metal that anchors to the bottom of the battery tray, the tray/tab made of plastic and will break if overtightened. you'll also have to feel for that hole when trying to hook it when the bracket goes back on the batteries, be patient).

these batteries are heavy and in an awkward position. be gentle but firm as you wiggle it out, and to avoid dropping it or scratching your bumper/headlights. gloves are nice to have on.
and there's your filter..

(notice cracked tab for where the long metal piece hooks on to to secure battery bracket, just hand tight)
need pliers to remove the clamps around the house (the hoses will just wiggle loose and away). take clamps out and set aside, it'd suck if it fell down into the engine bay. expect a small amount of fuel to drip out, catch with rag.
disconnect 2 lines into the pump and the one line into the water sensor underneath, remember where they go..
unscrew the filter... note: the water sensor is in there good and that stays on the filter, so be carefull not to twist/kink the sensor wires as you twist the filter off (it's all tight and cramp in there). the rubber hose will spin on it self though. so turn, unravel the wires, and turn and so on.. i was lucky that i had an old motorcycle filter wrench that just fit perfectly, a little tricky to get it around but with some wiggling you'll get it, or just a clamp style filter wrench (there was no way i was going to lossen this by hand!) don't forget to disconnect the water sensor wire terminal (and reconnect it)
remove filter, and remove water sensor carefully as it's made of plastic (this is where the vise comes in handy as i had no other tool to use, don't clamp it too tight, it'll twist off easy with bare hands). inspect, water sensor (didn't know there was a float there, guess that goes up when enough water builds, then it's released out the hose, cool!). replace o ring and lube that and the other seal with oil. re install water sensor, hand tight.
before filling with diesel or seafom, do a practice spin so you get the feel for it, it get's heaveier with the fluid back in (imho). fill and spin back on and hand tight 3/4 turn (directions on filter as well). it's still lefty loosy/righty tighty but upside down ;)
re-attach hoses and clamps. loosen bleeding screw, and pump till fuel comes out, tighten screw.
re-install battery/terminals/intercooler and start vehicle and inspect for leaks. (you really should make sure everything is back and tight because it'll be a pain to remove everything again after you've run the vehicle)
take for a spin on the highway and voila. i noticed no smoke after the seafoam and it honestly felt like it ran better and smoother...or maybe it's just in my head after reading all the posts on seafoam! btw, you need more than 1 can of seafoam to fill the filter, so i had to just pump a little extra diesel to fill the filter all the way.
OR, you can remove the filter housing/bracket with the 2 bolts on top (then using the vise to remove the filter from the pump). but i get it, those 2 bolts are kinda tricky to get to, so you can just spin the filter off where it sits...your preference.
hope that helps anyone else down the road. thanks again for the advice from the experts! :)
cheers.
btw, this job would be perfect for lefty's! i'm a righty