GISdood wrote:Why WOULDN'T the dealers get their hackles up and respond in kind? They have the most to lose from implications of cover ups and poor sales practices. The general public here is most likely sitting in stunned silence and shaking their collective heads at your statements. The dealers aren't running things, they're defending their reputations and their businesses.
As someone sitting on the sidelines ... I'm not sitting in stunned silence, I'm watching -- kinda like a tennis match -- the ball go back and forth, and deciding who is being legit, who has a chip on their shoulder, who is trying to hide something, and who is an idiot.
When a dealer gets his hackles up, and attacks someone, I tend to assume he has something to hide. If Brave had simply responded with "Sorry, I took the photos after washing the vehicle and it was still wet" that would have been fine. But the snarky and sarcastic answer did nothing to improve his image.
Another "signals analysis" I do is look at who is posting the questions, and who is posting defences. If the person defending a dealer has only posted a couple of times, and the one questioning the dealer has been on the forum for months and posted many times, my BS meter tends to twitch.
Dealers: in your mind you may be responding to only one person, but there may be a hundred people reading the thread, so you better be careful how you respond. Polite, reasoned responses (which may be hard at times) will go a long way to convincing others reading the thread that you are being falsely accused or misunderstood. Doing things like posting in giant typefaces or comments like, "If you don't at least have a friend that's a mechanic you must live in a rabbit hole" are certain to get MY hackles up.
In closing, I'm happy with my Delica, so I'm not shopping. But I do get asked by people, so my opinion should matter to dealers. And when the time comes to replace this Delica, all these posts by dealers, and comments from buyers, will be considered.